By: the Dakota Children’s Advocacy Center
As the holiday season approaches, children and families eagerly anticipate the joy and excitement it brings. Caregivers often immerse themselves in festive activities like decorating the home, preparing a holiday feast, and attending community events. But amidst the holiday hustle, how closely are we paying attention to our children’s social experiences? The adults in a child’s life play a crucial role in creating protective environments that ensure their safety, especially during the holidays.
Keep these important tips in mind as you navigate the holiday season:
- Respect your child’s boundaries. Support your child’s decisions about how and when they show affection to visiting family members. It’s important to honor their comfort levels. Help children think of other ways they can show affection without hugging, if that’s their preference.
- Maintain household rules. Don’t let the excitement of holiday activities relax your household’s boundaries. Always be aware of your child’s whereabouts, limit one-on-one interactions, and keep body safety communication open and frequent.
- It’s okay to say no. Remember, you can’t do it all. Overcommitting can increase stress and affect the entire family. Protect your family’s well-being by setting limits where needed.
- Speak up when necessary. Be ready to advocate for your child. If a family member insists on tickling or hugging your child and they’re uncomfortable, step in. Children deserve control over their own bodies and decisions.
By staying mindful of our children’s needs and boundaries during the holiday season, we can create an environment where they feel safe, respected, and supported. Visit us online at www.dakotacac.org to learn more child safety tips.
This article was adapted from www.D2L.org.