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By: the Dakota Children’s Advocacy Center
Parents may experience a range of emotions when they learn their teenager starts dating. While every household may have its own rules about relationships, certain guidelines should be emphasized in all families.
One of a caregiver’s top priorities should be to maintain open communication with teens about relationships. Teach them about respect, effective communication, and how to recognize red flags before they escalate. Although discussing topics like sex and relationships might feel intimidating, these conversations are essential for helping teens navigate healthy relationships, and it can help destigmatize the topic so they are more likely to discuss concerns or questions.
Consent is essential. Teach your teen the importance of asking for and giving consent and that it must be present for every activity. Help them understand that consent can be revoked at any time, isn’t implied by someone’s clothing or attitude, and can’t be given under the influence.
Respecting boundaries is equally important. Encourage your teen to accept a “no” without pressure or guilt. Emphasize that no one should feel bad for having personal boundaries. Don’t forget to also talk about the boundaries you want to set for them and why they matter.
Finally, remind your teen that not all abuse is physical. Dating violence often begins with subtle, controlling behaviors, so it’s crucial to recognize the warning signs early. Approach this conversation with love, curiosity, and an open mind to encourage honest dialogue.
Information for this article adapted from www.d2l.org